There’s a gulf of difference between things that appear ‘hard’ to me, and things that are ‘easy’, mindless almost, that get done without me noticing. What makes it so and how can we make it all ‘easy’?
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When we don’t get results the first time we try something, it’s easy to want to stop there. “It didn’t work.” we tell ourselves. But what if…
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I need to go faster! is such a common refrain in our instant society, our fast-paced lives. We’re told to breathe and be patient (how’s that working for you?), but there’s a different way to look at this…
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What do ‘results’ mean to you? Take a minute to answer that and then let’s dive in to a counter-intuitive exploration of what they’re really telling us about ourselves…
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At the heart of being successful is a paradox. It’s a paradox that the most successful people I know have solved, although they may not be aware of it. And it’s the paradox that keeps those of us who are feeling frustrated about our success fro achieving everything we want.
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When you have an inkling of an idea but you’re stuck with, what if X, I don’t know Y… and you find yourself not moving forward. What then?
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Vera came to me with a big problem about her colleague and a project they were both working on. Here’s how it looked to her, and here’s where I found a solution in a different place…
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Ellen told me all the reasons she didn’t want to live in London. And all of them sounded plausible! But what if we can lift our restrictions so that it doesn’t matter where we live, but we don’t have to be limited by things that don’t exist.
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I was reading an article this week that ‘keeping your eye on the ball’ is terrible advice in tennis and, I postulate, in life. Here’s how it works and what to do instead…
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Just like I joke that my dog barks more when I get on a video call, so we make up a lot of stories in life. And those stories are very limiting! Here’s what one client was making up about a move of just a couple of miles…
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If you’re in business, should (and how) you be creating a legacy, creating a monetary value in what you leave behind you? Or, maybe, there’s something else that’s more important? Read on to find out what that might be…
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Are you holding yourself back in life or work because of who you think you are? Your ‘identity’? Read on for why this can be damaging and what to do instead…
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“What's the difference between a coach and a leader?” This was a question I was asked in a talk I gave recently. read on to find out my answer…
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My client told me that he was nervous about the public talk he was preparing for. He wanted to ‘be prepared’ and his solution was to script everything. Will you help me? He asked. He meant with the script but here’s what a told him—something much more powerful!
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How true is it that you can have it all? And what does it take to get there? And…. what lessons can we learn from the highest-performing athletes? Take this strategy and apply to your everyday for instantly higher performance, and a much more satisfying life.
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